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Protection

God has a way of protecting us – even when we don’t know it.

This week we have been talking about David being in Serious Trouble. The story begins with David wanting to help a friend and ally King Achish. The other Philistine kings don’t trust David so they ask him to go home.

David, feeling a bit rejected unappreciated returns to camp. And it’s a good thing he does, for 2 reasons.

#1 – to retrieve his family!
When they get back to camp they discover the Amalikites had raided their camp and took their wives, children and livestock. If David had been caught up in a battle that could have lasted several days, who knows what would have happened to their families.
But because they were sent home – they were able to rescue their wives before the Amalikites could do anything bad to them.

#2 – to keep him innocent of Saul’s blood.
David wanted to go fight with the Philistines. But who were the Philistines going to fight? King Saul and the army of Israel.
As you read through the story of David – you discover that two times David had a chance to kill Saul, but refused – “touch not the Lord’s Anointed” was his policy.
Had David fought with King Achish – he would have been a part of the army that defeated Israel and killed his best friend Jonathan and King Saul.

God so moved in the hearts of the Philistine kings to NOT trust David – so he would have to return home. In his going home – he was able to rescue his family and he was allowed to be innocent of spilling the blood of Saul and Jonathan.

Had he fought with King Achish – it would have looked like David sided with the enemy just to kill Saul and take the throne of Israel. But God was protecting his family and his character and integrity the whole time – while I believe David was totally unaware.

Have a great day with Jesus


Serious Trouble – 4 (Final Exam)

The Final Exam

Yesterday, I mentioned that 1 Samuel chapter 30 felt like a final exam. I think in several ways it was. If you back up and look at the time line of events:

- David was going to help King Achish (but Philistine kings said no).
- David returns to camp to discover families have been kidnapped.
- David’s men become very bitter and angry with David.
- David rescues his families.

Meanwhile – back at the Ranch.

- King Achish and other Philistine kings go to war with Israel
- Saul and Israel army defeated
- Saul and son Jonathan killed in battle.

All this happens within 2 chapters. In Chapter 30 – David is in his Final Exam.
Circumstances get rough, family gets kidnapped, his men get angry with him.
- He doesn’t quit
- He doesn’t run
- He doesn’t blame God
- HE DOES pass the TEST!

With Chapter 31 – telling the story of Saul’s death, it is now time for David to move into his anointing, into his destiny into his role as the leader of Israel.

It just seems like when we get right on the brink of Destiny and Promises being fulfilled – the enemy comes against us as ONE LAST STAND! God uses that circumstance as a final exam to prepare us for the Plans he has for us.

- More tomorrow!
Have a great day with Jesus


Serious Trouble – 3

We are having some techincal issues with our e-mail distribution – for some reason it only likes to send out the e-mail every other day.  If today’s blog doesn’t make sense - you might back up and read the day before.  Sorry for the inconvenience. 

 

David found himself in serious trouble. Not because the Philistines were advancing, not because his wife and kids had been kidnapped (although that may be part of it).

This week we’ve been talking about David when he found himself in serious trouble with his men. Their families had been kidnapped, David’s men became angry and “very bitter” and actually are ready to turn on David.

1 Samuel 30 vs. 6 says they began talking of stoning him.

When your friends, family, co-workers and companions begin to talk of stoning you – that is serious trouble.

Just imagine how David felt.

- He had just been rejected by a king he was trying to help.
- He returns to camp and has a, “NOW WHAT?”
One of those, what else can happen experiences.
- His men begin to blame him and turn on him.

I get the feeling the heat is on for David. It seems just moments before our dreams come to pass, our destiny is within grasp – we go through “serious trouble?” It’s almost like it is a final exam before we can move into our destiny, God wants to see just how we will respond one more time!

David’s probably feeling pretty empty and in need of strength. Vs. 6 says but David found strength in the Lord.

There ain’t no place to go, but to the Lord. When you can’t cry anymore,
you have no friends who can help you and you are left alone with your circumstances, your pain and a bitter army – there is no place to find strength but the Lord.

Run to his presence today. Let him strengthen you!
1 Chronicles 16:11 says…
Seek the Lord and His Strength, seek his face continually.

- More tomorrow!
Have a great day with Jesus


Serious Trouble – 2

David found himself in serious trouble. Not because the Philistines were advancing, not because his wife and kids had been kidnapped (although that may be part of it).

David found himself in serious trouble because bitterness found its way into the camp. 1 Samuel Chapter 30 vs. 6

David was now in serious trouble because his men were very bitter about losing their wives and children, and they began to talk of stoning him…

To be honest, I would be more than bitter if my wife and kids were kidnapped!
But I’m not sure I’d be angry at David. Maybe I would. When we find ourselves in crisis – we loose our rational thinking.

David didn’t kidnap those families, it was the Amalikites. But David’s men allowed bitterness to creep into their heart. When we allow the enemy a chance to sneak into our hearts and whisper words of deceit and half truths; that can turn real legitimate pain into a whole new more dangerous animal called bitterness.

David was in serious trouble, his men weren’t thinking logically! They were angry and rightly so, but angry at the wrong person.

“THEY BEGAN TO TALK OF STONING HIM!”

It seems people are with you, until it cost them something. Don’t get me wrong – this is a BIG price to pay. I would be angry too. But so many times, crisis, bitterness, anger – it all causes us to loose touch with reality.

Those men loved David, and David could be the one to help them get their lives back…

God, don’t allow bitterness and anger deceive my heart and cause me to turn on the things in my life that could actually help me!

- More tomorrow!
Have a great day with Jesus


Serious Trouble

David and his men were running from Saul. They are allies with King Achish, and David offers to go fight with King Achish.  The king welcomes the alliance, but the other Philistine kings do not and they ask David to return home.

 

1 Samuel Chapter 30 vs. 1 – David is feeling unappreciated and a sense of rejection.   While they were gone, the Amalekites raided their camp and kidnapped their wives and children.

This is one of those… “NOW WHAT?” Moments. You wonder, WHAT ELSE CAN HAPPEN?!

 

vs. 4 says they wept until they could weep no more.  Ever been there?

Boy, I have.  I have been through times in my life, where I cried so many tears; I think I dried up my tear ducts.  You cry and cry until you just can’t cry anymore.

 

The story goes on to say that David was in “serious trouble,” because his men had become bitter.

 

As a leader – you are in serious trouble if bitterness creeps into the camp.  It can destroy unity, it can quench the move of God and it can totally distract you from the mission.

 

(To be honest, I would be more than bitter if my wife and kids were kidnapped! – we’ll talk more about that tomorrow)

 

I said this yesterday in my sermon, and I don’t know where the quote originates… but bitterness is like me drinking poison and expecting you to get sick and die. 

 

God, I pray if there is pain in my heart, you give me the strength and the wisdom to keep it from becoming bitterness today, in Jesus name, AMEN!

 

- More tomorrow!

Have a great day with Jesus


Betrayed – 3

Happy Spring Break –

We’ve had a great week of rest and relaxation. I hope the same for you.

This weekend at Cornerstone Church we will continue our series Lap Time, dialoguing about Samson’s life.

This weekend we deal with the people who betrayed Samson. He had a wife “to be,” marry his best man.  He was betrayed by his own contrymen who turned him over to the enemy. I know these personal wounds played a part in leading Samson to Delilah’s lap.

This week I’ve been reading in 1 Samuel 10 and the story where Saul has been anointed King.

vs 26 When Saul returned to his home at Gibeah, a band of men whose hearts God had touched became his constant companions.

Sometimes God stirs in the hearts of people to be loyal to you. It means their heart is called to you and the mission of your life. I understand that it is the Gospel that calls people and the Holy Spirit that speaks in a person’s heart. But in my life and ministry there have been people who God stirred in their heart to be a “constant companion.” Those people truly are a blessing and inspiration in your life.

Saul was running the risk of these men betraying him, but he chose to love and cultivate their companionship.  We’ll talk about those who criticized him and opposed him tomorrow.

I pray you know that feeling of having a God called constant companion.
- More Tomorrow!


Betrayed – 2

I’m sorry this week’s series has been messed up. We have had technical problems in the e-mail distribution – I think we have them fixed now.

Just a couple of things this morning on betrayal.

- It is going to happen. At some point in your life – someone you love, someone you think is with you, someone you think is fighting for you and on your team – will leave you.

- It Hurts. Plain pure and simple. If you have a heart, and aren’t like the Grinch trying to shrink your heart, through daily exercise. When people you love, care about, invest in, want as a part of your life – betray you or leave you. It hurts.

- Let them. I think it was T.D. Jakes that said if people can leave you, let them. If they can live without you in their life – let them go. It means they weren’t committed to you, your heart, your life, your mission in the first place.

If you are a leader of any kind, household leader, boss, manager, church leader, you are going to have people betray you. In the worst cases, a spouse betrays a spouse, leaving painful wounds. Those require much deeper spiritual surgery to overcome, but my God is big enough.

In some cases our kids betray us or leave us. Those wounds don’t heal quickly. It breaks my heart to see families who can go years without reconciling.

The pain is real – it’s a part of the enemy’s plan to divide and conquer. The best thing we can do turn your eyes on Jesus. He will never leave you nor forsake you. Hebrews 13:5


Betrayed

I’ve been preaching a series about Samson’s life called Lap Time. I believe there are a variety of things that culminated into a perfect storm in Samson’s life that caused him to run to the LAP of Delilah.

I’m working on my next message, Called “Betrayed.” What do you do when people leave you or betray you?

In Judges chapter 15, Samson had just put a whooping on the Philistines, who were oppressing the children of Israel. The Philistines couldn’t catch Samson – so they started to intimidate the people of Israel.

11 So three thousand men of Judah went down to get Samson at the cave in the rock of Etam. They said to Samson, “Don’t you realize the Philistines rule over us? What are you doing to us?” But Samson replied, “I only paid them back for what they did to me.”
12 But the men of Judah told him, “We have come to tie you up and hand you over to the Philistines.”

His own people – who Samson was trying to deliver and help – betrayed him, captured him and turned him over to the enemy.

How would you feel?

This week I want to talk about what happens when people betray us, and how it is important to deal with and overcome those wounds – otherwise we might end up in the trap of Delilah’s lap.

- Have a great week with Jesus.


Arise

My wife bought me a book by T.D. Jakes, Loose that Man & Let Him Go.

This passage really spoke powerfully to my spirit. The DNA of our Church is to be a place where people get their life back – and in this book, T.D. Jakes so eloquently paints a picture of what Jesus did with the dead circumstances of Lazarus.

My idea of a hero is a man who is soft enough to cry at a friend’s funeral, but strong enough to call him from the grave…

If you really want to resurrect a dead situation, then stop crying. Stand up and command it to arise.

Jesus wept! But when he finished weeping, He started raising. The Tragedy with Mary was she thought it was too late. Don’t make Mary’s mistake. The Evidence may look bad, and by now the situation may be stinking. But if you want him, raise him anyway – despite your disappointment….

Jesus said, “Lazarus, Come Forth!”

I think that says it so true – too many of us make Mary’s mistake and think it’s too late. But our God is big enough to raise a dead marriage, a dead circumstance, a dead dream and a dead ministry.

There is a time to weep, as Jesus did. But when the weeping stops, START RISING!

**Loose That Man & Let him Go! Copyright 1995 by T.D. Jakes.
First Inspirational Press edition published in 2000.


Humble

Reading through the bible – I am just now finishing the first 5 books, the story from Creation to the Promise Land.

 

In Numbers 12:3 – there was a verse that just stuck with me.

Now Moses was more humble than any other person on earth.

 

Moses was a great leader.  But he also lost his cool, lost his temper, wanted to quit, even disobeyed God a time or two.  But through it all – he still remained humble.

 

He endured criticism, he endured complaining and whining, but through it all he maintained his humility.

 

For God to look down and say, “You are more humble than any other person on earth! Wow, that’s a compliment.”

 

 

I think Jesus said something to the regard in Matthew 5:5…

God blesses those who are gentle and lowly, for the whole earth will belong to them.

 

God, even in tough circumstances, may I have the humility of Moses.

 

Have a great day with Jesus.


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